
I'm pretty sure I have more posts about
Tayson than any of my other kids. True he's my oldest so he should have the most...but really the reason he has so many posts dedicated to him is because he is quite a challenge.
Yesterday we had SEP conferences for both boys. We started with
Tayson's and found out that once again he has behavior problems in school. He can't sit still in class and he's disruptive to the class and the other kids because he's so silly. She went over his grades and he is on track academically. He should be at 80% or higher and is at 87% and 88% and he has really bad handwriting - but Todd and I both struggled with neat handwriting in 2
nd grade so that doesn't worry us. What does worry me is the fact that he has a desk in the back of the room all by himself so that he doesn't cause trouble and that his teacher will be sending home daily reports on his behavior. Moving his desk to the back of the room was his suggestion that it might help him not be so bad....we'll see if it helps.
Tayson's teacher kept talking about what a good kid he is but that he is just too silly and social.
Right after that we went to Luke's class and it was the exact opposite. His teacher talked about what a good student he is. She uses his work as an example to others on how to color neatly, he is reading above level and has only been in trouble once so far this year.
I have no idea what to do. We spent quite a while talking to Luke's teacher about
Tayson's behavior and she gave us some good suggestions. She also talked to us about
ADHD and some ways to tell if it's bad enough for
meds (one of the major ones being that no matter what you promise them they simply can NOT sit there and complete an assignment).
Tayson can do it if he wants to and he actually is really good about doing his reading and homework this year. He doesn't fight at all when it's time to go to school or do homework and he really likes school this year.
If anyone has ideas about what we can do for him I am open to any and all suggestions.
Here is what we are trying right now:
No red food dye in his foods. Eating
protein for breakfast instead of carbohydrates. Running to use up and channel his energy.