
Last night Todd and Timmy left to go play board games at David's house and I had just put the boys to bed so I thought I'd have a bowl of ice cream. While I was serving myself Luke came up the stairs for an apple and asked what I was doing. When he saw what I was doing he asked if he could have some too (and of course I can't say no to those big brown eyes....) so I told him to go get Tayson and we would all have ice cream.
We pulled out all the fixin's and the boys made sundaes. While we were making them Tayson and I had the following conversation:
Tayson: What's a step-mom?
Me: If daddy and I got a divorce and he re-married you would have a step-mom
Tayson: Is a divorce when you aren't sealed anymore?
Me: Sometimes.
Tayson: Why do you get a divorce?
Me: If daddy and I didn't love each other anymore it might happen.
Tayson: OK
Then we sat down to eat our ice cream and just chatted about everything. It was so much fun sitting there talking to my boys. Tayson talked about how the girls at school chased him on the playground. How he's worried about Luke being able to ride the school bus home alone. Telling me about how all the girls think he's silly and funny and his teacher told him he should be a clown when he grows up. We just sat and talked and talked and talked. I really hope that when the boys are teenagers a bowl of ice cream late at night is enough for them to sit and talk to me like that. Another funny conversation happened while eating our ice cream:
Tayson: Daddy would be so mad if he was home and we weren't in bed. He would count to 3 and give us flicks.
Luke: I hate flicks
Tayson: Good thing he's at David's
Luke: Mom, can we get a step-dad?
Tayson: Then who would wrestle with us?
Me: Nope I love daddy way too much to let you have a step-dad.
Luke: Yea me too. But I'm glad we get ice cream.
Oh how I love my boys.